SHOULD-A-FACKAP
Hello my friends,
I was wondering if I should even make this a topic of the next feather ruffle, now here we are: The word "should" is one of the biggest scams and disservices we inflict upon ourselves. Whether it's questioning whether we should pursue a certain path, share our ideas, or take a leap of faith, the endless cycle of "should I?" can keep us stuck in a perpetual state of indecision and doubt. Resulting in us never doing shit.
Here’s the real spill, if you're even asking the question, chances are you already know the answer deep down inside. That spark of inspiration, that nagging feeling in the pit of your stomach—it's all pointing you in the direction of action. So why waste time second-guessing yourself?
You don’t need to be a genius to know that overthinking and indecision can lead to decreased productivity, increased stress, and missed opportunities. In other words, the more you dwell on whether you should or shouldn't do something, the more you're holding yourself back from reaching your full potential.
So how do you break free from the shackles of "should" and start living life on your own terms? It's simple, my fellow badasses: just fucking do it. Here are three actionable steps to help you kick the habit of overthinking and start taking decisive action:
Recognize the Bullsh*t of "Should": Start by becoming aware of how often you use the word "should" in your daily vocabulary. Notice when it creeps into your thoughts and conversations, and challenge yourself to reframe your language. Instead of asking "should I?", ask yourself "do I want to?" or "am I ready to?"
Trust Your Gut: Remember, if you're even entertaining the idea of doing something, it means there's a reason behind it. Trust your instincts and listen to your intuition. If it feels right, go for it. And if it doesn't, well, at least you'll know you gave it a shot.
Take Imperfect Action: Perfectionism is the enemy of progress. Instead of waiting for the perfect moment or the perfect plan, take imperfect action. Embrace the messy, the uncertain, and the unknown. It's better to take a leap of faith and learn along the way than to stay stuck in the paralysis of analysis.
By following these three actionable steps, you'll be on the right path to step away from the tyranny of "should" and start living life on your own terms. Stop asking "should I?" and start saying "I fucking will." Because when you take decisive action with boldness and conviction, there's no limit to what you can achieve.
The world is full of opportunities waiting for someone bold enough to seize them (that someone is you). By ditching the shackles of "should" and embracing the power of action, you're not just changing your own life—you're inspiring others to do the same. Imagine a world where everyone took bold, decisive action towards their dreams and passions. That would be fucking badass. That's the world I want to live in, and I hope you do too. Let's be the catalysts for change, the sculptors of our own destiny. Together, we'll set the world on fire and leave a legacy that lasts for generations to come. Let's make shit happen.
Stay decisive and keep kicking ass. Bazinga.
Adam Rudolf
